My personal journey includes being a survivor of a violent crime.  I was at home alone and asleep when an intruder broke into my home.  The events of that night should have ended my life, but it was not my time.   As a result, I was diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).  I struggled with insomnia for years, and at times it was debilitating.  I was initially fearful of my own shadow when I saw my reflection in a window at night.  I slept with a night light for years and hypervigilance became my way of living.  

 

Chronic stress impacted my gut health to the point of developing food intolerances and required a major change in how I both nourish my body and deal with stress.  

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Despite the challenges, I was determined to take what happened to me and make a difference in the lives of others.  This life altering event fueled my passion to fight for others who had experienced these types of traumatic events.  After obtaining a master’s degree in criminal justice and a bachelor’s degree in psychology, I dedicated my 25-year law enforcement career working with officers in obtaining justice for survivors, victims, and their families.

 

Life altering events didn't end as there were failed relationships and divorce which required me to start over yet again.  I began to doubt my intuition and judgment- asking "how did I not see this coming?"   I felt as my world had been pulled right out from underneath me.  I made a pact with myself that these events were not going to define me.  I would learn from my experiences and even find love again. 

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During my journey I sought the help of many alternative providers in order to heal naturally.  Each one inspired me to become a certified coach so I could continue to help and empower others, specifically women.  I know it is without a doubt, my calling.  

 

Being a witness to what survivors, first responders, and the families of both deal with, I want to also support those whose life’s mission is to serve others, often at the expense of themselves, as well as their families.

 

In addition to my coaching certifications, I also became a certified trainer for the Creative Insight Journey (CIJ) course which includes a CIJ course for adults, businesses, and for kids and teens. These courses are based on a Stanford University master's degree program developed to cultivate creativity, self-awareness, and self-expression by utilizing mindfulness and emotional intelligence. 

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As I look back on my life, God utilized each and every event to mold and shape the person I am today.   I have been blessed with a loving husband of 11 years, family and friends that love and support me, and a 25-year career in law enforcement that sought justice that was fueled by my passion as a survivor.  I am a testament that life altering events can be overcome by faith, passion, and persistence and can lead to finding your life’s purpose.